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BK Shivani’s message is simple but holds a profound truth: reacting with anger, shouting, or harshness does not fix mistakes; instead, it just multiplies them. When someone makes an error, and we respond with frustration, we’re not bringing light to their mistake; we’re adding more darkness.In spiritual terms, sanskar means the impressions or habits formed by a person’s repeated thoughts and actions. Everyone carries different sanskars based on their upbringing, experiences, and inner conditioning. When we react strongly to someone’s incorrect habit or sanskar, we’re not helping them change, as it often makes them defensive, resentful, or more stuck; not just that, it also disturbs our inner peace.BK Shivani explains that making someone disciplined does not come from punishment or control. True discipline is about empowerment and transformation, which happens through a balance of love and respect. When we shout or criticise, we may stop that behaviour temporarily, but we don’t create lasting change. Instead, we damage the relationship and lower our own inner state.

The power of right vibrations

So what’s the alternative?BK Shivani advises us to remain calm and respond the right way. This is not a tough task; it can just come by pausing before reacting, checking our own inner state, and choosing words and actions that come from calmness, not frustration.When we stay quiet and calm and react the right way, our energy naturally influences others. People don’t just hear our words; they feel our energy. And it’s this energy that creates real transformation.